Would You Get Together With Someone If You Knew It Wouldn’t Last?
If we had a crystal ball, many of us would look at the last days of a relationship and swear that we would never be with that person again.
You shouldn’t fall in love with someone if things are going to end SO badly.
Is that right?
Everyone knows that breakups are bad. The breakup is even worse.
When a relationship stops, you might feel depressed, anxious, or unable to sleep. You might also have skin problems, aches and pains, lose or gain a lot of weight, or get sick.
Some cardiologists said they saw more heart attacks in people who had just broken up with someone.
It’s very painful to break up with someone.
But Have People Made Breakups Sound Bad?
Is it really true that relationships that last forever are the only ones that matter?
Ty Tashiro and Patricia Frazier from the University of Minnesota think we’ve forgotten about the chance to make “positive life changes following relationship breakups.”
In 2003, researchers looked at college students who had recently been dumped and found that breakups helped people grow, especially women.
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Have you or someone you know ever had this happen?
You broke up with someone you liked a lot.
In order to show him how wrong he was for letting you go, you started a mission to become a “new you.”
You started working out, bought some new clothes, and planned a lot of fun things to do with other people.
Thoughts of your ex-boyfriend came up from time to time, but you forced yourself to keep your mind on the future and life ahead.
You Didn’t Want Him To Make You Sad Any Longer.
Perhaps this new life you’ve made for yourself is better in every way than the old one.
In other words, the split wasn’t bad; it was good.
Your life can get better after a breakup.
When you think about relationships as good and breakups as bad, it’s easy to forget that not all relationships are good for you.
He Might Not Be The Best Person To Talk to.
Someone may be very important to you and someone you love, but he may not be the best person to be around.
If your partner likes to eat pizza, drink beer, and watch TV in his free time, you might not want to do those things with him. This could be bad for your health.
Having a partner who is constantly angry or negative can make you feel more stressed.
Your partner can also affect whether you follow your dreams or not.
If he thinks your job goals are silly or impossible, or if he thinks going back to school is a waste of money, you might not follow your heart.
It’s hard to understand how the person you chose for a relationship changes your life until the relationship ends and you’re free again.
Being single can be scary, but it also gives you a chance to find out who you are again.
The Bright Side
Part of getting over a split is getting to know yourself again.
If no one else likes the same things you do, you can still eat, listen to, and watch TV shows with those things.
You can choose how to spend your free time. You don’t need to change for other people.
The fact that women change so much after a breakup makes sense.
Even if a relationship feels great, it can be hard to move forward. It can be exciting to find yourself single again.
It’s possible that breakups aren’t as bad as everyone says they are.
It’s Possible That Breakups Teach us the most.
You could even say that it’s worth it to be in a relationship that doesn’t work out because it will help you learn more about yourself.
Should you have known ahead of time that those relationships would end badly, would you still say yes to them?
Can you think of any good things that happened after the breakup that wouldn’t have happened otherwise?
Are You Single Again?
Breakups don’t always make your life worse. Breakups can change your life.
If you’re single again, use this time to learn as much as you can about yourself, your tastes, and the kind of marriage you want next.
Also, falling in love with someone new is one of the best ways to get over a breakup.
I believe that the best way to heal from a broken heart is to find a relationship that makes your heart sing.
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All the best for your future!