6 Things Men Secretly Want From You

I’m sure you’ve all considered your man’s needs in a relationship, right? You were probably thinking about what you should give him and how you could completely satisfy him.

You don’t have to bother your pretty, little head any longer because I’ve compiled a list of the qualities that every man seeks in a partner. So, if you want to please your man, keep reading!

#6 They Desire Their Own Space

For all men, this is one of the most sacred things. They value their privacy and their space, so if you believe you can enter his life and turn his world upside down, you are mistaken.

True, they enjoy all of the sweet things that come with the beginning of a relationship, but once you have something stable, they will also want to spend time alone or with their friends.

But don’t be too hard on them because every individual deserves their own time and space.

#5 They Want Regular, Reliable Connection

People do not enjoy discussing their feelings, it is true, but this is only because we lack the necessary skills.

Women are more likely to talk about it because they have excellent means of expressing themselves without coming across as hopeless. With us, that is not the case. When we wear our souls on our sleeves, you can see how helpless we are.

The best way to view a person is to be honest and direct. If you do ask him a question, keep it succinct and provide an explanation. He won’t be confused that way, and you’ll get a sincere reply.

#4 They Do Not Want To Feel Guilty About Their Interests

Every man has a hobby that he enjoys and that helps him to relieve stress. If you try to take that away from him, he will be furious because he was already doing it before you came into his life.

Whatever he’s doing, it’s an important part of his life, and there’s a reason he’s doing it all the time.

To earn a man’s appreciation, appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how small.
It activates his “Hero Instinct.”

(In James’ video, you can learn more about the Hero Instinct.)

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#3 They Don’t Want To Change

It’s as easy: if they change, it will be because they want to, not because you want them to. Consider what would happen if your spouse tried to change you by putting yourself in their shoes.

What do you think about that? He probably doesn’t love you the way you are and wants you to change drastically. Now that you know how people respond to change, you can alter them.

Therefore, no matter what you do, don’t alter his way of life or his practices because, despite their flaws, they are what make him ideal for you.

#2 They Prefer To Take Things Slowly

The worst-case scenario would be if a woman he met says she wants to marry him and have children with him. WHAT? If you want to stay with your man, you need to pump the brakes and let things go more easily.

If you keep telling him you want to move in or marry him, he will flee as far as he can. And I don’t blame him because he doesn’t know you well enough to fully commit to you.

#1 They Want You To Understand That Relationships Are Two-way Streets

This is one of the most important aspects of a relationship for them. They want you to understand that, just as they make an effort to get you guys to work, you must also do something about it.

They want to know that you care about them and want to build a stable and healthy relationship with them. If you demonstrate your love for them, they will go to great lengths to reciprocate.